The truth about commuting and The Importance of Good Citizenship
The need to address anti-social behaviour
The workplace can be great fun, a contrast to the grind of the daily commute. Does that sound familiar? I recently attended a course aimed at improving public speaking. After introducing ourselves, our trainers informed us that we had five minutes to prepare a one minute presentation. The topic could be about any subject, but it had to relate to a specific problem. Reflecting on my commute, I talked about the Importance of Good Citizenship and anti-social behaviour. I wonder if what I observed resonates with you?
Marcus Aurelius on citizenship
Before we discuss why we should all be better citizens, let’s pause for a moment to think about what that means.
Marcus Aurelius said “We vote, we do good things, not because it has a noticeable or significant impact on the world, but because it is our duty. We make our tiny contribution to the common good — today, in the next election, in every election. We perform our chief task in life — today, tomorrow, every day.” Aurelius’s message is simple, and I learned in the military to leave a place in a better state than how I found it.
Observations on my commute
Seldom does a day go by when I don’t witness some form of anti-social behaviour. None of which is acceptable, but all of which are avoidable. Let’s start with the train journey. It takes 1% of the passengers to spoil the journey for the rest. The problems range from people resting their dirty feet on chairs, listening to loud music without a moment’s thought for those trying to enjoy some headspace.
Those boarding the train with a coffee or a sandwich often stuff their empty cups and packets down the sides of seats. On the return journey, commuters often leave empty beer cans and bottles under seats. Ugh!
I believed I had seen everything, until yesterday, when a group of youths thought it was ok to smoke illegal substances on public transport. WTF?
Is it safe for me, or those nearby to confront people who are either breaking the law, or being anti-social? Crossing that line involves taking a big risk. Why? A UK Travel Attitudes Strategy surveyed over 2,000 respondents. The report explains that 34% of all those using public transport say they have witnessed an assault or harassment (37% of males and 31% of females). A further 19% report having been assaulted or harassed, be that physical or verbal. I’m all too aware of the risk of confrontation.
Summarising my observations
There is no place for anti-social behavior in our society. I reported yesterday's incident, but the police are overwhelmed and stretched thin. Being a better person comes at little cost and requires minimal effort. By dedicating a small portion of our time to reflect on how our actions impact others, we can all help create a more respectful public space. I wonder if you have witnessed some of the issues I have mentioned? Let me know in the comments section, and thank you for your continued support.